When I say I wish I were perfect, I'm not trying to fish for compliments or reassurance. From the outside people may look at me and think mine is a picture of perfection.
I'm far from it, I come from a humble home and was just fortunate enough to have those parents that sacrifice a lot to give their children the best possible of everything! That and a string of grants, financial aid and scholarships got me through my schooling. So when people come to me and tell me how I inspire them and how they look up to me, I question whether I deserve such compliments because I still have so many boxes unticked. Am I whole enough to be someone's role model? I'm still trying to find my feet and that is why I feel so strongly about mentorship. I don't think enough people understand how important to have someone in your life that provides guidance to make your road to success that much more bearable.
I want to dedicate this post to the men, and woman who have helped me along the way...
Firstly, Ineleng Masike who was my first mentor while I was in varsity. He was (then) Finance Manager at AVI, my sponsors for the greater part of my varsity career. Always made time when I needed help, including assignments! And always stressed that I balance work and play; something I would like to believe I eventually mastered.
Secondly, Phuti Malabie. How I love this woman! The first time we had a mentorship session we spoke about everything! And the fact that she has a great sense of humour was a bonus:)
I remember leaving Shanduka that day, feeling invincible. Later that afternoon I gave my friends a blow by blow account of our session and I can safely say we are now some sort of mini Phuti Malabie Fan Club *hides*.
Third is my current mentor Dudley Saayman, Finance Director, BATSA (yes, where I work). Like I mentioned in a previous post, personal development at work is not taken lightly. Each graduate is allocated a mentor and coach and I got the best of both! Dudley is the friendliest big guy I've ever come across. Our sessions always leave me inspired. He takes genuine interest in my growth!
Lastly is my (career) coach, Chris Mugno. I have never come across such a self less person! If there is anyone to give credit for my career growth, it's this man! He's always frank with me, he's funny (I'm sure you've noticed the importance of humour to me by now), supportive and gives great advice!
Last year I was selected to be part of a Peer Mentorship Programme run by Study Trust. It taught me a lot about myself and also made me realise that sometimes all you need to give someone is your time. I'm no super woman but I always tried to give my mentees the best of me, and I plan to maintain this with all my future mentees.
I think the biggest aspect about mentorship is that you use YOUR platform to uplift others, as put by Marianne Williamson; "...as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same..."
